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Baby Ada's birth was the home birth we'd been planning for — kids safely at their grandparents, midwives we knew, intensity and joy and healthy everyone at the end. Elizabeth was very independent for most of labour, as she has been before — I fetched things, let midwives in, helped keep things clean and was just being present up into late pushing. We'd talked about my maybe catching Ada, but in the end I was busy holding Elizabeth and crying a bit as she pushed the last few times. I got to cut the cord, as I have for Oscar and Vivien. At home in our space was a nice place for a birth, and I felt quite involved.

Ada is pretty laid-back so far, and looking around a lot. She has a powerful suck, curious hands and neck and a variety of unconvinced facial expressions. She also sleeps really well in the baby carrier!

Elizabeth and I got a chance to give the baby carrier a whirl yesterday when our friend Seema generously offered to take the older two over to her place for a couple of hours. Thanks to her, we got to walk over to Brasseurs du Temps and have a little anniversary lunch date. Seven years of vaguely sacrilegious matrimony and crazy adventures! Our conversation was more sleep-deprived than deep, but it was really nice to make some time for our little dyad, and Ada helpfully snoozed almost the whole time. Also, BDT has really gotten comfortable in its skin and gotten into a refined and interesting beer groove. There was one unfortunate server comment about "ladies' beer" – La Grande Rivière is a tart, citrusy smacker of a beer that happens to be pink (and delicious to me and not Elizabeth's thing). Silly server. The presence of a tasty 2.4% session IPA (good for easing back into regular beer after 9 months on the pregnancy wagon) was exciting, though.

Date: 2015-06-02 01:10 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] amazon_syren
I am so glad the two of you got to have a lunch-date! :-D
Also, y'know, yay fabulous home-birth.
But lunch-date! :-D

Date: 2015-06-02 03:56 am (UTC)
From: [personal profile] auriaephiala
Congrats to Elizabeth and you, and welcome to Ada! Great name, BTW.

Date: 2015-06-01 09:46 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] joenotcharles.livejournal.com
Whenever I order something other than scotch or stout, I manage to pick a "girly drink" and Amanda doesn't. (This applies to coffee as well as booze.) And we notice whenever the waiter hands the drinks to the right person, or at least brings two drinks and asks what goes where in a neutral way, because it's very rare compared to assumptions!

Date: 2015-06-04 01:39 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sassy-red-head.livejournal.com
Lovely! I'm happy for you and your entire family :)

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